PULL OFF THE MASK
HOW TO BE THE WIFE OF A HAPPY HUSBAND
LET HIM SHOW YOU WHO HE REALLY IS (A HUSBAND,LOVER ,FRIEND AND COVERING )
MARRIAGE----A FULfilling RELATIONSHIP
Let me start out by saying to the Women that God cares so much about you and he is always
thinking about you and watching everything that concers you.no accidents occur in the lives
of Gods children.
He desires you to use your personality, your physical makeup,and your background to your
advantage. if you trust him(Romans 8:28).
I Believe the role of the wife in the marital relationship is the choice role. she is to be loved,protected,and cherished by her husband in the same way that Christ gave Himself
for the Church(believers).
The words "be subject" or be "submissive" describe the way you are to relate to your husband. another way of saying it is that you are to be a responder to your husbands love.
" SUBMISSION LIBERATES YOU NEVER IMPRISONS YOU"
Submission never means that your personality abilities,talent, or individuality are
buried, but that they will be channeled to operate to the maximum.
HOW TO BE THE WIFE OF A HAPPY HUSBAND
Someone said," Woman was created from a man,not from his head to be commanded by him,nor from his feet to be his slave,
Rather,she was taken from his side to complement him, near his arms to be protected by him,and close to his heart to be loved,"
Submission never imprisons you it liberates you. giving you the freedom to be what God wants you to be under the protection of divinely appointed authority.
Remember yes remember your relationship before you got married ???????
How you responded to his love and leadership (huh) he would bring flowers, He expressed his love and leadership by being thoughful ,complimenting you, bringing you gifts,
You responded to this love by making yourself attractive to please him or by going places with him that you may not have really cared about simply because you enjoyed just being with him .
NOW AFTER MARRIAGE
Now after marriage things began to change,-----------------What Happen ????????????
wheeeeeeeeeeeeee! Could it be that you gradually left your role responder by no longer taking time to look your best for your husband or refusing to share his interest ?yes it is easy to stop responding to your husband without even realizing it.
A WISE WOMAN KNOWS THAT SHE CANNOT TAKE HER ROLE LIGHTLY BUT MUST SERIOUSLY
WORK AT BUILDING A LASTING ,FULFILLING RELATIONSHIP.
"Every wise woman builds her house but the foolish ones tears it down with her own hands" (Proverbs 14:1)
A Woman can act foolishly and destroy her marriage. yet not be aware that she is violating principles that build
a successful marriage
That is the reason Women must be taught "to love their husbands and their children; to be self- controlled,chaste
homemakers,good natured(kind hearted),adapting and subordinating themselves to their husbands,that the word of God may not be exposed to reporach-blasphemed or dis credited" (Titus 2:4-5)
The world has done an effective job of distorting the marriage relationship and it's respective role, its about time the christian woman take a firm stand and show the world what a real God ordained marriage looks like from a
Christian womans fulfillment.
The foolish woman often feels unfulfilled. . She is convinced that her unhappiness is caused by homemaking and child care responsibilities. so she try to change her role and her home tear up.
She does not realize her failure to understand and fulfill the role God designed for her is causing her unhappiness. The wise woman reconizes Gods principles for building a successful marriage and applies them
She realize that a successful marriage requires planning in the same way any successful venture does.
A WISE WOMAN WILL BUILD A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE BY MEETING HER HUSBAND'S NEEDS DESCRIBED IN (PROVERBS 31:12 )
She will comfort,encourage and do him good only good as long as is life within her. determine your attitude or actions . when he is at his lowest,had a bad day at work lost his job ect. as you act wisely you will see.
'YOU WILL SEE A MIRACULOUS BLOSSOMING OF YOUR MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP'
Praise him for his physical strength and the ease with which he opens that tight jar,moves that furniture, discover your husbands good traits re discover them and honestly praise him.
God bless you and keep you.
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DRMDKIMBLE AND REV CE KIMBLE
FIFTY TWO YEARS OF MARRIAGE TO ONE MAN,GOD TAUGHT US MANY THINGS
NOW WE CAN PASS IT ON(send for the DVD how to be the wife of a happy husband)
our happy home where we raised our children(three daughters)